You have lived through those first critical years after the death of your partner and you made it through. But your grief is still there. It may not be as active as it once was, but it still lurks in the background of your everyday life. Learn new ways to cope with the current format of loss, gain an understanding of it, and reflect on the past, present and future. It’s been four years. It’s been six years. Or it’s been MORE than ten years.The struggle has changed because life has continued.