“Meet Captain Grief.” To cope with the loss of my wife I created an unapologetic jerk of a superhero alter ego who I could pick a fight with any time and who would always be the bad guy. I blogged with her in “The High-Flying Adventures of Captain Grief” that became my memoir Now is your chance at “Camp Widow” to meet my superhero alter ego in the flesh (and spandex). She is ridiculous, rude, self-righteous but truly unapologetic about the way she grieves. And she saved my life.